Introduction
Within Christianity, prayer is a sacred act of worship and communion with God. For many, prayer is directed toward the Father, through Jesus Christ, by the power of the Holy Spirit. However, some traditions encourage prayers to Mary, the earthly mother of Jesus, asking her for intercession or favor. While Mary is undoubtedly a woman of great faith and honor in Scripture, the practice of praying to her raises serious theological concerns. According to the Bible, prayer belongs to God alone, and directing it toward any created being—even one as blessed as Mary—distorts the unique role of Christ as our mediator.
Prayer Belongs to God Alone
The Scriptures consistently present prayer as worship directed to God. Jesus Himself taught His disciples, “After this manner therefore pray ye: Our Father which art in heaven” (Matthew 6:9). The Lord’s Prayer establishes God the Father as the sole recipient of our petitions. Throughout both Old and New Testaments, prayer is always directed to the Lord and never to saints, angels, or other figures.
Praying to Mary introduces another recipient of prayer who is not God, which shifts the focus away from the divine. To pray to anyone other than God risks engaging in a practice resembling idolatry, even if it is done with good intentions.
The Exclusive Mediatorship of Christ
One of the clearest reasons we should not pray to Mary is the unique mediating role of Jesus Christ. Paul writes, “For there is one God, and one mediator between God and men, the man Christ Jesus” (1 Timothy 2:5). This verse emphasizes the singularity of Christ’s role—He alone bridges the gap between sinful humanity and a holy God.
By directing prayers to Mary in the hope that she will carry them to God, one effectively establishes another mediator besides Christ. This not only undermines Christ’s sufficiency but also contradicts the plain teaching of Scripture.
Mary’s Humble Role in Scripture
Mary herself never sought prayer or worship. Instead, she humbly pointed others to her Son. When at the wedding in Cana, she said to the servants, “Whatsoever he saith unto you, do it” (John 2:5). Mary’s words direct us not to herself but to obedience to Jesus.
While Mary is called “blessed among women” (Luke 1:42) because she bore the Messiah, she still acknowledged her need for a Savior: “My soul doth magnify the Lord, and my spirit hath rejoiced in God my Saviour” (Luke 1:46–47). If Mary herself confessed her dependence upon God, it is inconsistent to ascribe to her powers or roles that belong only to Him.
The Danger of Elevating Mary Beyond Her Biblical Position
The Bible warns against worshiping or venerating created beings. In Revelation 19:10, when John fell at the feet of an angel to worship him, the angel rebuked him, saying, “See thou do it not: I am thy fellowservant… worship God.” If even angels reject prayers or worship, how much more should Mary—being human—never be the object of prayer.
When we elevate Mary to the role of intercessor or prayer-receiver, we risk blurring the distinction between Creator and creation, giving to a creature the devotion due to God alone.
Direct Access to God Through Christ
The gospel proclaims that, through Christ’s death and resurrection, believers have direct access to God. Hebrews 4:16 urges us, “Let us therefore come boldly unto the throne of grace, that we may obtain mercy, and find grace to help in time of need.” This direct approach is a privilege granted through Christ, without the need of additional mediators.
To bypass this direct access by praying to Mary implies that Christ is not sufficient, and that we need another advocate. Yet Scripture assures us that Christ Himself “ever liveth to make intercession” for us (Hebrews 7:25). No other intercessor is necessary.
Conclusion
Mary is to be respected, honored, and remembered as a faithful servant of God who bore the Savior into the world. Yet, she is never presented in Scripture as one to whom we should pray. Prayer belongs to God alone, and Christ is the only mediator between God and humanity. To pray to Mary is to step outside biblical teaching and diminish the sufficiency of Christ’s intercession.
Therefore, Christians should honor Mary in the way Scripture does—by remembering her faith and humility—while reserving prayer and worship exclusively for the Father, through Jesus Christ, in the power of the Holy Spirit.