“Therefore if any man be in Christ, he is a new creature: old things are passed away; behold, all things are become new.” (2 Corinthians 5:17, KJV)
Introduction
Becoming a Christian is not merely a change of belief; it is the beginning of a new life. Scripture calls this being “born again” (John 3:3). For the new believer, this season is often filled with joy, questions, growth, and sometimes opposition. The Word of God does not leave the new Christian without direction. This paper offers clear, biblical guidance on what a new Christian should do next, what to expect along the way, and how to respond when friends or family reject their new life in Christ.
What a New Christian Should Do Next
Establish a Life in the Word of God
The Bible is spiritual food. Just as a newborn baby needs milk to grow, the new Christian needs Scripture.
“As newborn babes, desire the sincere milk of the word, that ye may grow thereby.” (1 Peter 2:2)
Begin by reading the Gospel of John, then continue in Romans and the Psalms. Read daily, even if only a small portion. Ask God for understanding before reading. The Holy Spirit teaches believers through the Word (John 14:26).
Develop a Consistent Prayer Life
Prayer is communication with God. It does not require special words or long speeches. Speak honestly, with humility and faith.
“Pray without ceasing.” (1 Thessalonians 5:17)
Prayer should include praise, confession of sin, thanksgiving, and requests. As prayer becomes a habit, the believer grows in trust and dependence upon God.
Join a Bible-Believing Church
Christianity is not meant to be lived alone. God places believers into the body of Christ for growth, accountability, and encouragement.
“And let us consider one another to provoke unto love and to good works: not forsaking the assembling of ourselves together.” (Hebrews 10:24–25)
Seek a church that teaches the Bible faithfully and points people to Christ, not to entertainment or personal gain.
Obey Christ Openly
Jesus commands believers to follow Him openly, including baptism as a public testimony of faith.
“If ye love me, keep my commandments.” (John 14:15)
Obedience does not earn salvation; it is the fruit of salvation. A changed heart will produce a changed life.
What a New Christian Should Expect
Spiritual Growth Takes Time
Growth is a process. The new Christian will not understand everything immediately, nor will they overcome every struggle at once.
“He which hath begun a good work in you will perform it until the day of Jesus Christ.” (Philippians 1:6)
God is patient. The believer should be patient with themselves while remaining committed to growth.
Conviction and Change
The Holy Spirit brings conviction of sin. This may result in a desire to leave behind habits, language, or relationships that once seemed normal.
“And be not conformed to this world: but be ye transformed by the renewing of your mind.” (Romans 12:2)
This change may feel uncomfortable, but it is evidence of spiritual life.
Spiritual Opposition
The Bible clearly teaches that following Christ brings opposition.
“Yea, and all that will live godly in Christ Jesus shall suffer persecution.” (2 Timothy 3:12)
Opposition may come through temptation, discouragement, or pressure from others. This is not a sign of failure, but a reality of the Christian walk.
How to Respond When Friends and Family Reject the New Life
Expect Resistance, Even from Loved Ones
Jesus warned that following Him could bring division.
“Think not that I am come to send peace on earth: I came not to send peace, but a sword.” (Matthew 10:34)
Some friends or family members may feel threatened, offended, or confused by the believer’s new faith. This response is painful, but not unexpected.
Respond with Love, Not Anger
The Christian is called to reflect the character of Christ.
“But I say unto you, Love your enemies, bless them that curse you.” (Matthew 5:44)
Do not argue harshly or attempt to force belief. Speak truth when given the opportunity, but always with gentleness.
Let Your Life Be the Testimony
Changed behavior often speaks louder than words.
“Let your light so shine before men, that they may see your good works, and glorify your Father which is in heaven.” (Matthew 5:16)
Consistency, humility, and love can soften hearts over time.
Remain Faithful to Christ Above All
While believers are commanded to honor family, loyalty to Christ comes first.
“He that loveth father or mother more than me is not worthy of me.” (Matthew 10:37)
This does not mean abandoning family, but it does mean refusing to deny Christ to gain approval.
Conclusion
The new Christian has entered a lifelong journey of faith, growth, and obedience. God provides everything needed through His Word, His Spirit, and His church. Challenges will come, including rejection from those once closest, but Christ walks with His people every step of the way.
The believer must remain rooted in Scripture, committed to prayer, faithful in fellowship, and bold in obedience. The promise of Christ stands firm:
“Lo, I am with you alway, even unto the end of the world.” (Matthew 28:20)